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If you’ve been thinking about diving into the sugar bowl and becoming a sugar baby lately, you should know you’re in excellent company. There comes a time in every woman’s life when she’s tired of kissing frogs and ready to take up with someone of quality instead. The idea of being cherished and adored by a successful, affluent sugar daddy often sounds like just the ticket, and in many cases, it is.
But while the idea of something as new and different as sugar dating is definitely exciting, it can be scary, too. Even the most confident aspiring sugar babies sometimes worry whether they really have what it takes, so it’s OK if you do, too. Here are a few important things to keep in mind as you start exploring the sugar bowl for yourself.
1. Beauty does not equal worth.
It’s normal and natural for even confident people to compare themselves to others, especially when they’re getting ready to tackle something new. That said, it’s not uncommon for aspiring sugar babies to size up the competition on their dating platform of choice and be blown away by how beautiful, sexy, and self-assured other sugar babies seem to be. If they’re not careful, they can easily wind up thinking their potential success as a sugar baby is all about looks.
However, while aspiring sugar babies should be well-groomed, you don’t have to be a runway model to be a hit in the sugar bowl. So much of what makes a sugar baby sexy isn’t physical at all. Sure, it helps to be beautiful, and it’s essential to look your best. But intelligence, compassion, sense of humor, and personality are a big part of the equation, too. So never confuse your beauty with your overall worth. You’re so much more than that, and your future sugar daddy won’t have any trouble seeing it.
2. You’re sexier than you think you are.
We’re living in crazy times that find women comparing themselves to absolutely everyone, including models in magazine ads, dazzling online influencers, and successful childhood friends on social media. Very few don’t wind up feeling a little jealous at times. Just know that there are others who almost certainly look at you as the standard to beat.
It’s not always easy to feel like a sex goddess, but you can rest easy in the knowledge that men see you as much sexier than you probably see yourself. Keep in mind that men don’t assess women by the grueling standards women impose on themselves. Sugar daddies, in particular, go crazy over women who are young, vibrant, bubbly, and sweet and find them incredibly sexy. And only you possess your unique brand of sexiness – exactly the brand your future sugar daddy is looking for.
3. Being sweet does not mean being a doormat.
They call it sugar dating for a reason. Sweetness is a crucial component in the sugaring experience, and it’s a quality most men are looking for in a potential sugar baby. Like you, they’re tired of dating people who are boring, sullen, and emotionally unavailable. Instead, they want to be with someone kind, compassionate, and full to the brim with love to give. So if you’re a sweetheart, you’ll do well in the sugar bowl.
But it’s important to understand that being sweet is far from the same thing as being a pushover. Yes, a sugar baby needs to know how to make her man feel loved, important, and considered. But she knows how to stand her ground and set boundaries, as well. Great sugar babies are sweet but with solid backbones to lend them a good sense of balance.
4. You deserve better than men who don’t appreciate you.
Far too many women waste years letting other people convince them to deprioritize their own needs when it comes to love and dating, and you’re probably not an exception. Just got finished dealing with a string of unsatisfying relationships? You’ve probably heard that you’re too picky and need to give people a break. Tired of dating deadbeats who can’t even take care of themselves, let alone you? You need to be more independent and make your peace with carrying more than your share of the load because that’s life, right?
Well, it’s officially time to banish that thinking from your mind. You deserve so much better than most women are conditioned to expect from the world and men these days. You deserve to get everything you want and need in a relationship. You deserve to be treasured, loved, and spoiled rotten by a man who actually deserves to be with you. And most importantly of all, you deserve to be happy.
You can find all of those things and so much more in the sugar bowl with a bit of time and patience. So dive right in and make the most of it!
