BDSM dominance and submission are perhaps the most sensual and emotionally strong sides of the entire culture, since here partners exchange power, recognize the supremacy of the other, enjoying their psychological and sexual roles.
How do I enter the flow state?
The experts worked on the theory of the state of a person in a stream, who managed to find the transitional border of this world into the other. The flow manifests itself with symptoms such as:
- The full concentration of attention on what is happening;
- Loss of awareness, self-awareness;
- Time distortion.
If the body was in pain, the person would try to find a way out of the situation, and not remember every movement of the dominant. The BDSM session is an aesthetic pleasure. Experienced couples talk about weightlessness, lightness, and the feeling of flight. Beginners do not immediately manage to succumb to such unfamiliar sensations. It’s easy to get into a trance, you need to distinguish between dominants and submissives.
Respect is the key
Without the maximum respect for both partners, the practice of BDSM is impossible: it is important to openly discuss all interests, desired and received pleasures, and sexual needs. It is also strictly forbidden to use those practices that one of the partners does not know about, and has no idea about the necessary safety techniques. In such cases, partners are looking for those people whose experience in the practice of BDSM is greater, so that they can tell in detail about the permissible actions and the necessary safety measures.
Such cases are very common in this ethics, and they do not provide anything shameful or unpleasant. In order to start practicing this type of sexual relations, you should start watching the BDSM video, learn as much information about it as possible, preferably from those who are experienced in such practices.